FAQs

Your questions answered

Faqs

Your questions answered

Communication

The best way to arrange a booking is via the booking request form on my website. It is the quickest and easiest way to give me all the important details for time together, expediting the process. There is a dedicated section for questions on the secure form, but if you’d like to know the answer prior to arranging a booking please email me at  hello@darling-nikki.com

If your preference is to speak via phone please email or text me to arrange a mutually suitable time to speak. I have another job and am often unable to speak unless prearranged.

While communicating via email is preferred, prior to our meeting I do require your phone number for safety screening and confirmation on the day. This is not optional. If you are not prepared to provide  your phone number I will not be able to see you. If desired, I will gladly delete your number on arrival.

Availability

My availability is varied. I have both daytime and evening availability depending on the particular day, my other job’s flexible schedule and personal commitments. Some days I have availability throughout the day, while others I may be in the office or have a late afternoon start time. With notice, I can arrange a cheeky early morning pre-work play, a steamy lunchtime session or after work dinner, drinks and debauchery. With enough notice I can move or swap days to accommodate longer bookings and travel companionship.

Currently, a minimum of 24 hours notice for bookings, especially in Sydney, is essential. I have another part-time job and life commitments to schedule around so the more notice I have the better able I am to organise being available at your desired time.

There are occasions, (generally when I am on tour) that I may be able to accommodate shorter notice bookings, you are welcome to try your luck, but again the more notice I have the higher the chance of my availability at your preferred time.

Deposits

A non refundable deposit is required to secure your booking.

$100 for bookings of 1-2 hours, 20% for bookings 3 hours and longer.

50% for longer bookings arranged with less than 48 hours notice.

If you need to cancel and provide 48+ hours notice your deposit will be credited to your rescheduled booking. If less than 48 hours notice is provided your deposit will be forfeited. Travel companionship bookings require 1 weeks cancellation notice.

In Australia, deposits can be paid via Commonwealth bank ‘instant’ ATM, BeemIt, bank transfer or BPAY (please allow 3 days).

International deposits can be paid via bank transfer, Transferwise or online gift certificate to my chosen retailer.

Payment

Payment is due on arrival. Cash in local currency or the equivalent in AUD/USD is accepted. Depending on our location, in a discreet unsealed envelope is appreciated.

Depending on your preference, you are also welcome to pay in full in advance via bank transfer or bank deposit into my discrete business account. Please allow plenty of time for the payment to be processed.  In Australia, payment can also be made via BeemIt (instant) or BPAY (3 days).

Incalls

Generally, I host in discreet private apartments, both in Sydney and interstate. On occasion, I may organise a hotel.

Once we have agreed on a suitable time and I have confirmed receipt of your deposit I will confirm our time together in my dairy. On the day I ask that you to confirm with me no less than an hour before our scheduled meeting time. I do not provide the exact address prior to confirmation. This is for my personal safety and privacy.

At any stage, if you think you might be late, please let me know prior to actually being late.

Because our mutual discretion is imperative I ask that you please arrive and depart quietly so our meeting remains our secret. Please be mindful of your behavior and communication when in the building’s vicinity. Don’t repeat aloud directions, address details or anything else that might jeopardise our privacy.

On arrival please pay any balance owed. I will offer you a fresh towel and use of the shower. Please be sure to use the toiletries provided thoroughly as the cleaner your body and the fresher your breath are the more fun we will have.

Outcalls

I am happy to visit your 4/5 star hotel or private residence.

Depending on the location and distance from me, extra travel fees may apply.

For my safety and security, I require your full name so that I can call the hotel and speak to you in your room. Discretion is a part of the service so you can be assured that your details will remain confidential.

Please ensure payment is visible in an unsealed envelope on my arrival. Please also be freshly showered, clothed (a robe is ok) with fresh breath.

If you have preferences for my attire (ie. business, evening dress, casual, jeans, flat shoes etc.) for arrival or would like me to bring something a bit naughtier to change into please let me know well in advance so I can be sure to have your desired outfits ready to play.

Discrimination

I do not not discriminate on the basis of age, ability, race, gender, sexuality, religion or otherwise. I enjoy meeting clients ranging from the age of consent upwards of all body types and ethnicities. Genuinely pansexual and am delighted to see clients of any gender and sexuality. I absolutely love to explore all types of sexual desires and fantasies.

Having completed the Touching Base professional training in 2008 I welcome clients with disabilities. To ensure us having the best time together possible I ask that you let me know your specific needs so that I can make any necessary arrangements for our time together.

Your initial introduction and our subsequent communication give me a feel for if we will be a pleasurable match. I do not accept all appointment requests, as it is important to me that I am the right provider for you, and also that we are both going to enjoy our time together.

My primary requirements are that you are respectful in your communication and of my time and boundaries. I enjoy sharing my time with clients who are polite and considerate, both during the booking process and during our time together. If you are disrespectful, rude or unkind at any stage the appointment will not go any further.

Couples

I absolutely love playing with couples and groups. Consent is required from all participants prior to our playtime together.

A minimum of 2 hours is recommend for couples, especially if this is a new experience for you or your partner. I find it more relaxed not to feel rushed and it allows plenty of time for both partners to indulge their sensual curiosities and naughty desires.

Health

I consider the protection of our sexual health paramount and do not offer unsafe services. No BBBJ. No CIM. No COF. This is a hard boundary for me. If this is something you are after please do not contact me, I am not the provider for you.

With a University degree in Human Sexuality and my work in sexual health promotion, I am very aware of the short and long term health risks associated with with unprotected services. If you are interested in a service where safer sex is sexy, sensual and adds to our mutual pleasure then absolutely book a session with me.

Overnights

Unrushed and with plenty of time to play throughout the evening and in the morning, overnights are one of my favourite way to savour each other’s company.

Whether you want to stay in, “Netflix and Chill” or go out for dinner, drinks, dancing, the evening is ours to enjoy however you choose and we get to finish it all off with a sensuous morning between the sheets.

Overnights must include 6 hours sleep. I also offer extended overnights and multiple day sessions if you’d like our time together to last a bit longer. Please contact me for more details and pricing.

Travel Companionship

While extended dinner dates and overnights are some of my favourite bookings, travel companionship is my absolute favorite and I would be elated to travel to or with you anywhere in the world.

If you need stimulating company during your down time on a business trip, an intrepid companion to join you on your next holiday or a sultry confidante for a wild weekend away I am the woman for you. I am travel ready with extra pages in my passport valid until 2028. Let’s go on a carnal adventure together!

Attire

If you have any special requests for my attire during our time together please do not hesitate to ask. I have quite a selection of different colours and styles of lingerie, negligees, dresses, pant suits/skirts, swimwear, latex, leather, shoes, boots, costumes and more.

If there is a particular outfit you’ve seen on my twitter or instagram, feel free to send me a photo. You are also welcome to bring any outfit you’d like me to wear. Please check in with me for sizing as fit may vary by designer.

If you require me to purchase something specific for our booking I am happy to do so for the additional cost of the item and consideration for my time paid in full in advance. Please include any requests in the dedicated space on my booking request form.

Costumes. Roleplay. Fantasies.

I have a variety of costumes and very much enjoy roleplays. The following list is not exhaustive: secretary, boss, school teacher, school girl, doctor, nurse, police officer, army, sailor, scientist, roller girl (skates included), cowgirl, girl scout, maid, stripper/exotic dancer.

If you have a very specific scenario you would like to play out you are welcome to provide a outline of your fantasy either in your initial booking request or once we have confirmed the appointment time.

Feel free to be as detailed as you like, don’t be shy. I am happy to follow your fantasy as precisely as possible and am also adept at improvising if you just have a general scenario. Please do not ask me what I like personally, to come up with a fantasy for you, or about scenarios that I have done before with other clients. Roleplay is an opportunity for you to explore your individual fantasies and desires.

If you’d like to dress up or be dressed up as a part of our session you are more than welcome. I have a variety of outfits, wigs and makeup for crossdressing, sissification or lesbian play sessions. If you would like a special outfit or item, but can’t have it sent to your home or office I have a post box you are welcome to have items mailed to. Please allow plenty of notice to allow for shipping times.

I don’t travel with costumes unless requested prior to my departure, so for bookings that involve costumes, fantasies or roleplay, please provide enough notice to allow me time to accommodate your request, preferably in your initial booking request.

Photos

My photos are genuine, minimally edited and representative of me. If you would like to see selfies and candid images you can find them on my website, instagram and twitter feeds.

I will not send face photos, so please do not ask.  The are several reasons I choose not to show my face. Safety, privacy, client discretion and the ability to travel unencumbered are a few examples.

Privacy

Please respect my personal privacy. Do not ask unsolicited questions about my private life and I will extend the same courtesy.

Please also respect my time and privacy between bookings.

Discretion

Discretion is a part of the service and I pride myself in being extremely professional. Your personal information and anything you share with me in your booking request or during our time together is safe with me. I expect the same courtesy.

There may be an occasion where we run into one another in the mundane world. Not to worry, since we have never met in that realm and I would have no reason to recognise or say hello to you, you can continue your personal business with none being the wiser to our sexy secret. Please also extend me the same courtesy if you see me in public. I may be with friends, family or another client and wouldn’t wish to be recognised. Even if I am alone, please do not approach me as this is my private time and engaging with me outside of a booking is disrespectful of my personal boundaries.

Etiquette

Original Source: Stichting Man/Vrouw en Prostitutie, a Dutch group for clients of the sex industry. Edited by the Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP) NSW.

A visit to a sex worker will be even more pleasant if:

  1. You are polite and respectful.
  2. Your body is fresh and clean. Don’t be offended if the worker checks you for infections, or asks you to shower.
  3. You are not too out of it on drugs or alcohol.
  4. You both agree about the service. Be clear about what you want, and find out what the price for that is.
  5. You recognise that each sex worker has their own limits.
  6. You always use a condom or dam for vaginal and oral contact. Always use lots of lube too. Sex workers are experts in safe sex satisfaction and afterwards it will be the sex, not the condom you remember!
  7. Be relaxed. Sex is the most normal thing in the world. Do not expect too much and keep your head. It is not a love affair and however pleasant the contact is, remember it is a professional service.
  8. Please be considerate when you leave. Neighbors appreciate their peace and quiet.

Gifts

Always appreciated, never expected.

Donations to the following services would make my heart immensely happy…

Snowy Monaro Wildlife Rescue

Goongerah Wombat Orphanage

Wombat Protection Society

Koala Rescue Queensland

Firesticks Alliance

 

If you’d prefer to give something tangible…

I’d love to share some wine or champagne with you.

I prefer plants to fresh flowers.

Dark chocolate is my weakness.

Fresh and floral scented soy candles are always delightful.

 

Some of my guilty pleasure retailers are…

Baby Likes to Pony

Max Black

Agent Provocateur

Net-A-Porter

Wicked Weasel

 

While things are nice, experiences are better…especially when shared.

Gillian Adams Spa

Langham Spa

Yellow Restaurant

Qantas

Nail Lounge

 

 

 

 

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About Me

Eyes: hazel

Height: 174 cm/ 5′7″

Measures: natural 34D-27-36

Dress size: US 6/AUS 10

Shoe size: EU 39/40 US 8.5/9

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